What I want and don't want at my funeral:
First thing is remember to let all my Whats app Contacts know I have kicked the bucket and tell those who sing with me on Smule Roopa, Meera, Shekher, Ravi and Suresh to inform all my other Smule Buddies
1- I could have died alone in bed on 13th April 2000. When I did not, I pleaded with my God for ten more years as Mithu and Anand needed me badly. Not only did I get ten years I also got a further extension of another ten years...I have lived every day the last 20 years being grateful for this extension and celebrated each breath even though breathing was getting more and more difficulty as time went on and the body was ageing.
2- Tell family not to waste their retirement funds on airfares to attend the funeral. I have seen all those who cared for me in the last 20 years and been in daily contact through Whatsapp after quitting FB in 2017. Ask family and friends not to mourn but celebrate any which way they can from where they are. Toast me a Black Label Scotch or a Glass of Red or a Cold Gold Beer and I will enjoy the last drop before I go for ever.
3- The last thing I want is a HINDU Funeral with a Brahmin Priest bathing me in public etc. I have published an article on this topic. The way Hindus deal with Death
Nor do I want to be a stiff in a box in a three piece suit. I'd like to be in my comfy Black Polo neck skivi and black pants with suspenders so pants do not fall off plus in my fav laced Brown Shoes with my Round glasses looking like Steve Jobs minus his bank balance.
4- Find Aarons Father to be the MC as he is most professional in conducting memorial services. He did a great job at Aunty Daphneys send off.
5- any one and eveyone who wants to come is welcome except Mainak Gupta if he is still around when I am gone.
6- Play the following music in the given order.
a- SHADDAP YOUR FACE
Whats the matter you ? why you looking so sad? Its a nice a place so shut up your face .. ( Play Video on Screen)
b- Hindi Song . .. Zindagi ka Safar ( Play Video on Screen) (Provide Printed English Translation)
c- Tamil Song - Aaru Manamae aaru
(Play Video on Screen) (Provide Printed English Translation)
Have every one up standing:
d- all family members present to come forward and Sing "Sudha Brahma" one last time for me.
You will be singing this for me. so face me and not the crowd.
Nama Ramayana sums up the epic Ramayana written by sage Valmiki. It describes Lord Rama’s divine form, qualities and pastimes.
It consists of 108 verses which are divided into six chapters:
First thing is remember to let all my Whats app Contacts know I have kicked the bucket and tell those who sing with me on Smule Roopa, Meera, Shekher, Ravi and Suresh to inform all my other Smule Buddies
1- I could have died alone in bed on 13th April 2000. When I did not, I pleaded with my God for ten more years as Mithu and Anand needed me badly. Not only did I get ten years I also got a further extension of another ten years...I have lived every day the last 20 years being grateful for this extension and celebrated each breath even though breathing was getting more and more difficulty as time went on and the body was ageing.
2- Tell family not to waste their retirement funds on airfares to attend the funeral. I have seen all those who cared for me in the last 20 years and been in daily contact through Whatsapp after quitting FB in 2017. Ask family and friends not to mourn but celebrate any which way they can from where they are. Toast me a Black Label Scotch or a Glass of Red or a Cold Gold Beer and I will enjoy the last drop before I go for ever.
3- The last thing I want is a HINDU Funeral with a Brahmin Priest bathing me in public etc. I have published an article on this topic. The way Hindus deal with Death
Nor do I want to be a stiff in a box in a three piece suit. I'd like to be in my comfy Black Polo neck skivi and black pants with suspenders so pants do not fall off plus in my fav laced Brown Shoes with my Round glasses looking like Steve Jobs minus his bank balance.
4- Find Aarons Father to be the MC as he is most professional in conducting memorial services. He did a great job at Aunty Daphneys send off.
5- any one and eveyone who wants to come is welcome except Mainak Gupta if he is still around when I am gone.
6- Play the following music in the given order.
a- SHADDAP YOUR FACE
Whats the matter you ? why you looking so sad? Its a nice a place so shut up your face .. ( Play Video on Screen)
b- Hindi Song . .. Zindagi ka Safar ( Play Video on Screen) (Provide Printed English Translation)
c- Tamil Song - Aaru Manamae aaru
(Play Video on Screen) (Provide Printed English Translation)
Have every one up standing:
d- all family members present to come forward and Sing "Sudha Brahma" one last time for me.
You will be singing this for me. so face me and not the crowd.
It consists of 108 verses which are divided into six chapters:
Bala-kanda, Ayodhya-kanda, Aranya-kanda, Kiskindha-kanda, Sundara-kanda and Yuddha-kanda.
Bala-kanda
suddha brahma paratpara rama
kalatmaka paramesvara rama
sesa talpa sukha nidrita rama
brahmadyamara prarthita rama
canda kirana kula mandana rama
srimad dasaratha nandana rama
kausalya sukha vardhana rama
visvwamitra priyadhana rama
ghora tataka ghataka rama
maricadini pataka rama
kausika makha samraksaka rama
srimad ahalyoddharaka rama
gautama muni sampujita rama
suramuni varagana samstuta rama
navika dhavita mrdupada rama
mithila purajana mohaka rama
videha manasa ranjaka rama
tryambaka karmukha bhanjaka rama
sitarpitavara malika rama
krta vaivahika kautuka rama
bhargava darpa vinasaka rama
srimad ayodhya palaka rama
rama rama jaya raja rama
rama rama jaya sita rama
Ayodhya-kanda
aganita guna gana bhusita rama
avani tanaya kamita rama
rakachandra samanana rama
pitru vakyasrita kanana rama
priya guha viniveditapada rama
tat ksalita nija mrdupada rama
bharadvaja mukha nandaka rama
citra kutadri niketana rama
dasaratha santata cintita rama
kaikeyi tanayarpita rama
viracita nija pitr karmaka rama
bharatarpita nija paduka rama
rama rama jaya raja rama
rama rama jaya sita rama
Aranya-kanda
dandakavana jana pavana rama
dusta viradha vinasana rama
sara bhanga sutiksnarcita rama
agastyanugraha vardhita rama
grdhradhipa samsevita rama
pancavati tata susthita rama
surpanakharti vidhayaka rama
khara dusana mukha sudaka rama
sitapriya harinanuga rama
maricarti krtasuga rama
vinasta sitanvesaka rama
grdhradhipa gati dayaka rama
sabari datta phalasana rama
kabandha bahu cchedana rama
rama rama jaya raja rama
rama rama jaya sita rama
Kiskindha-kanda
hanumat sevita nija pada rama
nata sugriva bhistada rama
garvita vali samharaka rama
vanara duta presaka rama
hitakara laksmana samyuta rama
rama rama jaya raja rama
rama rama jaya sita rama
Sundara-kanda
kapivara santata samsmrta rama
tadgati vighna dhvamsaka rama
sitaprana dharaka rama
dusta dasanana dusita rama
sista hanumadbhusita rama
sita vedita kakavana rama
krta cudamani darsana rama
kapivara vacanasvasita rama
rama rama jaya raja rama
rama rama jaya sita rama
Yuddha-kanda
ravana nidhana prasthita rama
vanara sainya samavrta rama
sosita saridi sarthita rama
vibhisanabhaya dayaka rama
parvata setu nibandhaka rama
kumbhakarna siraschedaka rama
raksasa sanga vimardhaka rama
ahimahi ravana carana rama
samhrtha dasa mukha ravana rama
vidhi bhava mukha sura samstuta rama
khasthita dasaratha viksita rama
sita darsana modita rama
abhisikta vibhiisananata rama
puspaka yana-rohana rama
bharadvajaa bhinisevana rama
bharata prana priyakara rama
saketa puri bhusana rama
sakala sviya samanasa rama
ratnala satpithasthita rama
pattabhisekalankrta rama
parthiva kula sammanita rama
vibhisanarpita rangaka rama
kisa kulanugrahakara rama
sakala jiva samraksaka rama
samasta lokoddharaka rama
sakala jiva samraksaka rama
rama rama jaya raja rama
rama rama jaya sita rama
e- Lastly Play MY Fav Raghupathi Raghav
Kiss me good bye and Play Vaishnava Janato and press the button.
Boy what a Ride...Loved every minute of it and strived to live by my mothers and fathers rules
My Father said forget showing the other cheek when some one slapped you. Slap him back.
"Be a Good Man to a Good Man and a Bad man to be a bad man"
Here is my Final Good Bye to this World:
kalatmaka paramesvara rama
sesa talpa sukha nidrita rama
brahmadyamara prarthita rama
canda kirana kula mandana rama
srimad dasaratha nandana rama
kausalya sukha vardhana rama
visvwamitra priyadhana rama
ghora tataka ghataka rama
maricadini pataka rama
kausika makha samraksaka rama
srimad ahalyoddharaka rama
gautama muni sampujita rama
suramuni varagana samstuta rama
navika dhavita mrdupada rama
mithila purajana mohaka rama
videha manasa ranjaka rama
tryambaka karmukha bhanjaka rama
sitarpitavara malika rama
krta vaivahika kautuka rama
bhargava darpa vinasaka rama
srimad ayodhya palaka rama
rama rama jaya raja rama
rama rama jaya sita rama
Ayodhya-kanda
aganita guna gana bhusita rama
avani tanaya kamita rama
rakachandra samanana rama
pitru vakyasrita kanana rama
priya guha viniveditapada rama
tat ksalita nija mrdupada rama
bharadvaja mukha nandaka rama
citra kutadri niketana rama
dasaratha santata cintita rama
kaikeyi tanayarpita rama
viracita nija pitr karmaka rama
bharatarpita nija paduka rama
rama rama jaya raja rama
rama rama jaya sita rama
Aranya-kanda
dandakavana jana pavana rama
dusta viradha vinasana rama
sara bhanga sutiksnarcita rama
agastyanugraha vardhita rama
grdhradhipa samsevita rama
pancavati tata susthita rama
surpanakharti vidhayaka rama
khara dusana mukha sudaka rama
sitapriya harinanuga rama
maricarti krtasuga rama
vinasta sitanvesaka rama
grdhradhipa gati dayaka rama
sabari datta phalasana rama
kabandha bahu cchedana rama
rama rama jaya raja rama
rama rama jaya sita rama
Kiskindha-kanda
hanumat sevita nija pada rama
nata sugriva bhistada rama
garvita vali samharaka rama
vanara duta presaka rama
hitakara laksmana samyuta rama
rama rama jaya raja rama
rama rama jaya sita rama
Sundara-kanda
kapivara santata samsmrta rama
tadgati vighna dhvamsaka rama
sitaprana dharaka rama
dusta dasanana dusita rama
sista hanumadbhusita rama
sita vedita kakavana rama
krta cudamani darsana rama
kapivara vacanasvasita rama
rama rama jaya raja rama
rama rama jaya sita rama
Yuddha-kanda
ravana nidhana prasthita rama
vanara sainya samavrta rama
sosita saridi sarthita rama
vibhisanabhaya dayaka rama
parvata setu nibandhaka rama
kumbhakarna siraschedaka rama
raksasa sanga vimardhaka rama
ahimahi ravana carana rama
samhrtha dasa mukha ravana rama
vidhi bhava mukha sura samstuta rama
khasthita dasaratha viksita rama
sita darsana modita rama
abhisikta vibhiisananata rama
puspaka yana-rohana rama
bharadvajaa bhinisevana rama
bharata prana priyakara rama
saketa puri bhusana rama
sakala sviya samanasa rama
ratnala satpithasthita rama
pattabhisekalankrta rama
parthiva kula sammanita rama
vibhisanarpita rangaka rama
kisa kulanugrahakara rama
sakala jiva samraksaka rama
samasta lokoddharaka rama
sakala jiva samraksaka rama
rama rama jaya raja rama
rama rama jaya sita rama
e- Lastly Play MY Fav Raghupathi Raghav
Kiss me good bye and Play Vaishnava Janato and press the button.
Boy what a Ride...Loved every minute of it and strived to live by my mothers and fathers rules
My Father said forget showing the other cheek when some one slapped you. Slap him back.
"Be a Good Man to a Good Man and a Bad man to be a bad man"
Here is my Final Good Bye to this World: